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About First Tuesday

Our Vision
First Tuesday Format
Current Schedule
First Tuesday for Younger Couples
Dinner-for-Two
Note to Husbands
Join our Mailing List
More Information

First Tuesday
for Married Couples

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What Is First Tuesday?

First Tuesday is a monthly support and enrichment program for married couples sponsored by the Catholic parishes in Cedar Falls and Waterloo.

First Tuesday was created in 1994, and is now celebrating its 15th anniversary as a regular opportunity for married couples of any age or faith who want to enrich their married life, discuss common concerns with other married couples, and continue growing together.

First Tuesday is designed for couples who have a good marriage and want to make it better ... for couples whose marriage needs a little extra attention ... and for couples who are experiencing some of the challenges that accompany every normal marriage.  Couples with serious problems may find First Tuesday helpful, in conjunction with professional counseling.

Our Vision

Our purpose is to encourage and enrich one another by our presence and by sharing the wisdom we have gained from our own experience as married persons.
None of us is an expert.  None of us has a perfect marriage.  We are married people who share common experiences, common problems, common hopes, and common fears. 
We believe that every married couple needs encouragement and support. 
We believe that a good marriage takes time, attention and tender-loving care.
We welcome the opportunity to meet other married couples who share our commitment to married life.

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First Tuesday Format

First Tuesday meets monthly (except July and August) on the first Tuesday evening of the month.  Meetings are open to the public.  There is no registration or fee.  Married couples may attend regularly each month or occasionally from time to time, depending on their time, interest and personal needs.

Each monthly meeting is conducted by married couples who know first-hand the rewards and challenges of married life.  Each meeting is divided into two sections:
A presentation by a married couple, sharing some aspect of their
  experience of marriage, followed by a discussion of the presentation.
An "open forum" in which anyone can express concerns, ask
  questions or share insights about married life.

First Tuesday is not a social club.  The format is informal and confidential, but couples may remain anonymous.  A friendly atmosphere encourages couples to share if they are comfortable doing so, but there is no obligation to speak.  Every person's observations are treated with respect.  We discourage criticism and advice. 

Many couples participating in First Tuesday discover that the most valuable sharing occurs later, outside the group, when a couple shares privately with each other.

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2011-2012 Schedule

First Tuesday meets in the Burfiend Education Center in the Chapel Wing at Covenant Medical Center, 3421 W. Ninth Street, Waterloo.  Monthly meetings begin at 7:00pm and end at 8:30pm.

Here are our Discussion Topics for 2011-2012:
October 4 -- Money & Financial Issues
November 1 -- TBA
December 6 -- Making Time for Each Other
January 3 -- (No session)
February 7 -- Balancing Responsibilities
March 6 -- Communication
April 3 -- Managing Conflict
May 1 -- Mixed Faith Issues
June 5 -- TBA

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First Tuesday's “Dinner-for-Two”

Couples participating in First Tuesday receive a First Tuesday “Dinner-for-Two” card which may be used at participating local restaurants on the first Tuesday evening of each month.  The “Dinner-for-Two” Card entitles couples to receive a free entree or sandwich with the purchase of an entree or sandwich at the regular price between 5:00 and 10:00pm on the first Tuesday evening of the month.

2010-2011 Participating Restaurants

AJ's Eatery & Spirits
Applebee's Neighborhood Grill, Waterloo
The Brown Bottle, Waterloo
Carlos O'Kelly's Mexican Cafe, Waterloo
Famous Dave's BBQ, Cedar Falls
Highway 63 Diner, Waterloo
LJ's Neighborhood Grill, Waterloo
Perkin's Restaurant & Bakery, Waterloo
The Pump Haas, Cedar Falls
The Village Inn, Cedar Falls
The Village Inn, Waterloo

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A Note to Husbands About First Tuesday

    "I know how many husbands react when their wives suggest attending a marriage enrichment program like First Tuesday.  Our first thought is:  Why? What’s wrong with our marriage?"

Click here for a special message for husbands.

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Join Our Mailing List

By phone: call 319-234-9912
By email: DBQ208s3@arch.pvt.k12.ia.us
Online: Click here

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For information contact:
Director of Adult Faith Formation  •  320 Mulberry St., Waterloo IA 50703. Phone: 319-234-9912  •  Email: DBQ208s3@arch.pvt.k12.ia.us

Posted 03.03.09    Last Update: 12.09.11

OUR COMMITMENT TO ADULT FORMATION
The Catholic parishes in Waterloo are committed to providing life-long faith formation and spiritual growth for adults of all ages. We value individual life experience, respect the diversity of personal convictions, and welcome the wisdom of every participant. We encourage conversation and dialogue. We will never intentionally embarrass or offend participants.


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